Being a stay-at-home is one of the most thankless jobs out there. It also takes up a huge amount of physical, mental, and emotional labor that far exceeds that of a normal job! That’s why it’s so important to always be looking for new ways to change up your day-to-day routine.
Every human being needs things that they are passionate about. It’s what keeps us going! It’s also what makes us happy. Living Kairos suggests that you look for new things to do, even if you already have one or two hobbies in your back pocket. You never know when something could be a new kind of stress-reliever or healthy coping mechanism. And there’s so much to experience, too – from physical activity like sports, dancing, or yoga to creative passions like painting or writing or music. A hobby that you can do on your own terms and in between raising your kids would be especially helpful.
Start a Business
Starting a business is like starting a new hobby… except the stakes are much higher. Having your own business can be empowering and liberating. However, it can also be extremely stressful. Entrepreneurship normally takes up a lot more time and effort than a normal job – especially in the beginning. It is not an easy thing to tackle, but it can be incredibly rewarding. There are certain things you will need to do to prepare. Research, more than anything else, is essential. According to Franchise Gator, everyone starting a business should create a separate bank account. You should also create a comprehensive budget and business plan. Read about the process from those with experience either in your community or on the internet.
Know When and How to Set Boundaries
Boundaries are critical for mental health no matter who you are. Being a mom can be especially hard, though, since you might feel the responsibility to always sacrifice your own mental and emotional health for the sake of your child. It’s hard to know where the line is. It can help to make scheduled and regular time for yourself – maybe while they’re napping or playing with a friend. You might be doing some of that hobby you love, or you might be simply taking some time for yourself.
You need a balance. It does not make you a bad mom to have yourself as a priority along with your child. The key is knowing how to shift your routine around to accommodate everyone. Some days that won’t be possible – but most days it will be.
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